No matter how hard you try to make situations fit to the way you want them, You can’t. Life gives you more than you can handle not to see you fail, but only to see you succeed and be better than you were before it.  You think your life sucks, but it’s nothing compared to what He went through.

It is what it is.

You try to make reasons for why this, why that. But your comprehension does not mean a single thing, because the reason behind it all is to find Him and Him alone. You complain about why doesn’t this happen, or why did this happen. But it’s because it had to, to make you realize something more, or to make room for something better.

It is what it is.

You constantly worry about the next day, the next hour, or what’s to come.  But worrying only hinders your farther and farther away from Him. Why worry about what hasn’t even happened yet? Just because the world gives you all these signs meaning what youre thinking will happen, that doesn’t matter. God can change anything in a heartbeat.

It is what it is.

You WISH you could change how things are. You wish you could have this and that, or be that or this.  You want everything to work out your way just so YOU can be happy. But no. You have to suffer to receive happiness. You can’t have everything you want maybe because its not the right thing for you.  You can’t dictate your life, because it isn’t yours to begin with. What you got is what you got. Who you are is who you are. It is what it is.

-pbma.